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Don’t Sleep with Him Yet!

Don’t Sleep with Him Yet!
Why aren’t the guys you meet interested in a meaningful relationship? Maybe you’re choosing guys who aren’t into relationships once the initial pursuit ends.

It’s okay not to want commitment. However, if your goal is commitment, you have to look at the men you’re selecting.

Why waste your time with someone you’re not really excited about? Stop being a people pleaser. Listen to your intuition. Don’t doubt your own judgment.

Sex is fun and feels great, but it may be best to wait a few dates. Conversations leading up to sex can make intercourse more pleasurable.

Listen as Dr. Nancy Lee joins Dr. Pamela Peeke to discuss dating in the modern era and how to find the relationship you seek.


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Featured Speaker:
Nancy Lee, PhD
Dr. Nancy LeeNancy F. Lee, PhD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Beverly Hills, California. Dr. Lee is a leading practitioner of cognitive behavior therapy and specializes in a wide range of behavioral health issues ranging from depression and anxiety to male/female psychosexual desire and functioning. Her warm approach, incisive, practical insights and unique blend of clinical and academic relationship expertise earned her the 2015 Vitals Patients’ Choice Award.

Dr. Lee especially enjoys leading student discussion forums covering a broad scope of psychosocial issues such as hookup culture, dating violence, and high-risk drinking, among others, at local colleges and universities, including UCLA. In addition, Dr. Lee has served on Claremont McKenna College’s Personal and Social Responsibility (PSR) Title IX and Sexual Assault Committee since its (pre- #MeToo) inception approximately five years ago. As such, she has helped draft and implement campus sexual assault prevention, education, and intervention practices. Dr. Lee also devotes considerable time and expertise to young adults on a one-on-one basis. A handpicked advisory board member of Career Up Now, Dr. Lee mentors students and recent graduates (through age twenty-six) of USC, UCLA, and California State University at Northridge (CSUN).   

Also, a dynamic speaker and consultant, Dr. Lee has contributed to KNBC-TV, FOX-TV, KTTV-TV, Metro News and the Los Angeles Times. Dr. Lee received her doctorate at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center at Dallas-Graduate School of Biomedical Sciences, followed by a postdoctoral fellowship in behavioral medicine at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center in Torrance, California. Her independent research has been published in the prestigious Journal of Affective Disorders and the International Journal of Eating Disorders, among others. She is married with two sons.